"When you obey destiny, your circumstances will improve! But if you focus on your self-pity and rejections and your problems and say "God why aren't You helping me?" - He will not talk to you about your circumstances when you complain. He wants to talk to you about why you are in the earth - your destiny - what He has equipped you for".
Rob Rufus - "Attitudes That Attract The Empowering Grace Of God - Part 2" - City Church International, Hong Kong - Sunday 27th July 2008.